TODAY IS THE DAY
3 years ago today I was late for a date with this little beauty, but like they say, better late than never. .
You have to live a good cliche because, like in so many instances and ironically they rain true. .
Relationships are fucking hard, I mean really hard. You meet someone and fall in love and after all the dust has settled from the honeymoon phase you have to work hard, because you are faced with being challenged with every belief you have, with a person that has their own way of thinking, living and loving. .
We often think that we know it all, so when the one that loves you pushes your buttons and tests what you know you have 3 options.
1. To fight
2. To fold
3. To put your shield and swords down and work together. .
With number 3 we have to face many fears, you will have to educate yourself and you have to be strong and what comes out at the end, of you truly and whole heartedly are open is something you can’t really put into words. .
Now this beautiful girl stalks my phone with random selfies so this is your payback, but in all honesty I wouldn’t want it any other way. You make me smile even through the hardest times and for the first time in my life make me feel I can truly give my life to someone, knowing that they would treat it like the greatest gift they will ever receive. .
So thank you for the pain, thank you for the fights, thank you for challenging me to the point I am left empty, because beyond all the sweetness of love, that challenge has allowed me and you to grow and become strong into the AMAZING parents to our soon to be born daughter, children to our parents and together a family to everyone in our lives. .
Thank you for 3 amazing years as my girlfriend and by the end of today a life together, forever as my wife. @gauxierita .
I love you ❤️
#love #marriage #strength #together