THE TRUE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE. —
For many years before I met this beautiful woman I didn’t really understand marriage. So I decided it wasn’t something I was ever overly serious about.
Then a long came this one. A person that values marriage highly.
At first it was a test for me and something I fought long and hard with. Even when I proposed I was fighting the idea that I needed a ring to do so. —
Then one day I realised I didn’t need a ring to propose. So I got down on one knee and with nothing but a promise I proposed and with that surprise I really started to see the true value of what marriage meant to this beautiful person. —
8 months on I managed to put together some funds and buy her a ring. Once again I surprised the hell out of her and got this reaction. A reaction of true beauty joy and excitement because of what it really meant to her. —
My view on marriage haven’t really changed, but what marriage means to me has. I found a different way to look at things and really managed to find the true beauty in it. —
It’s a hard task to do, to look at a situation that doesn’t quite agree with you and search out the true beauty in it. I was able to surprise my beautiful fiancée twice and received this beautiful smile in return, but in reality it was me who was surprised the most at what joy came out of something once upon a time I would have fought against. —
Now that to me is AMAZING!
Thank you for helping me to always see the strength and beauty in everything @gauxierita. I love you ❤️
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